How do I tell my current boyfriend that we need to go our separate ways?

jeez, i hope u do not live together! if u do not live together just send him text message that u re through. i hope he won’t get physical

start making out with another guy in front of him.

to Wildcat: I’ve known many ignorant as fvck rednecks. The term ‘white trash’ makes me think maybe the judgment is on CHARACTER rather than just a job or hating ‘blue collar’ workers. I admire the work ethics of many rednecks but many are just plain ignorant, ‘low class’ and anti-intellectual, also.

Tell him you wanna get wed guys hate commitment lol.

Snob.

I would tell him the truth.

I would tell him, “I’m really a snob who looks down on people with blue-collar jobs. You really don’t deserve such a class-conscious, superficial princess like me. I hope you find someone who likes you for who you are, and not someone who — like me — judges you based on your job and your education level. I wish all the best for you.”
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You actually should send money to Lady Wildcat. Her answer is just perfect. Perhaps copy it down and use it repeatedly in the upcoming decades.

Wow, I’m really sorry you got all those kinds of answers… Who am I to say mine would be better, but this sounds better to me if I was in your situation, considering I was in your shoes less than a year ago.

Tell him that you feel like when you guys got together originally, the feelings and the passion were there. That things were great then, but as you’ve grown you have changed and feel that the relationship isn’t giving you want out of being with him. Just tell him it’s not neccesarily anything he did (even if did do something, if you tell him what it was, save for after the conversation and official break up. This will save unneccesary “but I can change” crap), but that you want different things out of life. Also that when you are off to college, it will be too much to deal with, being far apart and dealing with the work load you will have. It’s really as simple as that: Over time, you have changed, and don’t want to deal with a long distance relationship.

I believe this is the gentlist way to break it to him. I did it with my boyfriend, who I even lived with at the time. We had gotten together when I was 16 and he was 19 and we both just grew up and changed, and weren’t compatable anymore. It happens. Especially when we get together with someone when we are young. Even if he tries to make you feel bad, don’t. It’s your feelings, and you need to do what is best for you. Don’t make decisions in a relationship based on whatever you are worried about that has to do with the other person. I’ve learned this lesson the hard way.

Well, redneck don’t necessarily mean white trash. Just tell him up front that he isn’t the one for you anymore. If he asks for a reason, tell him you ain’t into the whole future that you have predicted with him. Tell him that you want a lot more out of life than a guy with a truck and a simple job. That’ll make him feel real good about himself. Or you can do some self examining and come to the truth of it which is that you just aren’t that into him because you got your own future planned out and it doesn’t include him. Be honest, it really isn’t because of who he is, but who you want to become. Not being mean, just being honest. You just aren’t ready for a real relationship with anyone yet. You don’t know what your future holds for you, and you don’t want to miss out on all that life might bring your way.

You sound like a real c#nt. Do him a favor and cut him loose. He can certainly do better.

Best answer goes to “Lady Wildcat.” You hit the nail right on the head.

Lady Wildcat is right, and he should be glad that you want to dump him. I think the guy will be allot better off.